When the past is still present, EMDR helps your mind file it where it belongs.
Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing in the UK
EMDR is a NICE-recommended therapy for PTSD and trauma — and increasingly used for anxiety, phobias, and depression with traumatic roots. Find a UK therapist accredited by the EMDR UK & Ireland Association. Online or in-person, free 15-minute discovery call.
Trauma isn't 'in the past' if your body still reacts as though it's happening now.
"Have you ever known something is over, but not been able to feel that it's over?"
When memory keeps the wound open
Some experiences leave a different kind of mark. You can describe what happened. You know the date, the place, the people involved. But when something — a smell, a noise, a feeling — pulls the memory up, your nervous system reacts as though it's happening again. Heart racing, breath short, body braced.
It might be an obvious 'big T' trauma — assault, accident, combat, sudden loss. It might be something quieter that you've never quite called trauma, but that still bites — childhood neglect, repeated humiliation, a frightening medical event, a relationship that took something from you.
Talking about it has helped, up to a point. But for some memories, talking alone hasn't been enough. The body still reacts. The intrusion still comes. The avoidance is still there.
EMDR works on a different layer.
EMDR helps the brain reprocess what didn't get processed
Developed by Francine Shapiro in the 1980s, EMDR uses bilateral stimulation — eye movements, taps, or sounds — while you briefly hold a memory in mind. Multiple controlled trials show that this allows the memory to be re-stored differently: still accessible, still factually true, but no longer carrying the same charge. NICE recommends EMDR alongside trauma-focused CBT as a first-line treatment for PTSD. The evidence base for trauma is now decades deep.
Imagine remembering without reliving
Being able to recall a difficult event the same way you'd recall any other — informational, not somatic. Walking past the place, hearing the song, seeing the date on the calendar — and noticing it without spiking. EMDR doesn't erase memory. It changes how the memory lives in you, so the past stops running the present.
Why EMDR works
It's recognised by NICE, the WHO, the American Psychiatric Association and clinical trials in dozens of countries.
NICE-recommended
NICE NG116 (the UK guideline for PTSD) recommends EMDR alongside trauma-focused CBT as first-line treatment for adults with PTSD. The World Health Organization, the American Psychiatric Association and the Department of Defense have all reached similar conclusions in their own reviews.
Often faster than talk-only therapies for trauma
For single-incident PTSD, EMDR often resolves the core symptoms in 6-12 sessions. Complex or developmental trauma takes longer — but EMDR is frequently the part of treatment that produces shifts other talking therapies have not.
You don't have to talk through everything
Unlike most exposure-based therapies, EMDR doesn't require you to give a detailed narrative of what happened. You hold the memory in mind; you don't have to describe it in full. For many trauma survivors, that is the difference between being able to engage in therapy and not being able to start.
How EMDR works in practice
EMDR follows an 8-phase protocol developed by Francine Shapiro. A trained therapist will move through these at a pace that fits your nervous system, not a textbook.
History & treatment planning
Your therapist takes a careful history, identifies the memories driving the present-day symptoms, and agrees with you what the targets of EMDR will be. This phase matters — it's why EMDR with a trained therapist is very different from EMDR done badly.
Preparation & resourcing
Before any reprocessing, you build the resources to handle it: grounding techniques, a mental 'safe place', emotional regulation tools. This is non-negotiable for complex trauma — skipping it does harm.
Assessment of the memory
You and your therapist identify the worst image associated with the memory, the negative belief that goes with it ('I'm not safe', 'It was my fault'), the positive belief you'd like instead, and a baseline of how disturbing it currently feels.
Desensitisation (the bilateral stimulation phase)
You hold the memory in mind while the therapist guides eye movements (or taps, or auditory tones). You report what comes up — usually shifts in image, sensation, thought. Sets continue until the memory's emotional charge drops significantly.
Installation of the new belief
Once the memory is desensitised, the same bilateral stimulation is used to strengthen the more accurate, adaptive belief — so it's not just intellectually true but felt to be true.
Body scan
Checking that the memory no longer carries somatic residue — body tension, breath holding, stomach drop. If anything remains, you target it directly.
Closure & re-evaluation
Each session closes with grounding to make sure you leave regulated. Subsequent sessions check that the work has held — often it does without further input; sometimes adjacent memories surface and become the next targets.
Ce este EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing)?
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EMDR is an evidence-based psychotherapy developed by Francine Shapiro in 1987. It uses bilateral stimulation — eye movements, taps, or sounds — alongside the recall of distressing memories to help the brain reprocess them, reducing the emotional and physical charge they carry. NICE recommends it alongside trauma-focused CBT for PTSD.
- •NICE first-line recommendation for adult PTSD (NG116) alongside trauma-focused CBT
- •Developed by Francine Shapiro (1987); 8-phase standard protocol
- •Effective for single-incident PTSD often within 6-12 sessions
- •Increasingly used for anxiety, phobias, and depression with traumatic roots
- •Look for therapists accredited by the EMDR UK & Ireland Association
- •You don't have to give a detailed verbal account of the trauma
Why choose MatchyMatch for emdr therapy?
MatchyMatch is a UK platform for emdr therapy. Every therapist holds professional registration — with a UK body (BACP, UKCP, HCPC, BPS) or a recognised international body — so you have verified credentials before you ever pick up the phone. Your first 15-minute discovery call with any therapist is free, so you can see if it's the right fit before committing.
- Free 15-minute discovery call before you commit to emdr therapy
- Verified UK & international credentials (BACP, UKCP, HCPC, BPS, COPSI and others)
- Online or in-person sessions, whichever suits you
- Therapy in English and other languages — including ones the NHS rarely offers